Your questions answered


I’ve never done anything like this before... is that okay?

It’s more than okay, it’s ideal. We’re not looking for pro models or rehearsed poses. This shoot is about capturing you as a real person, not some polished version of someone else. So if you’ve never done a shoot before and feel a bit clueless... perfect. You’re in exactly the right place.

You’re a guy. How does that affect things?

Great question. We know this can be a concern, and we don’t shy away from talking about it.

Yes, I’m a male photographer. That’s not for everyone, and I completely respect that. But for the right person, it can actually bring some surprising positives:

  • Men and women often see “sexy” differently. If your photos are for a male partner, or you’re curious about how a male perspective might shape the imagery, then this could be a plus.
  • Some women find it easier to access their sensual side with a male photographer because the dynamic feels familiar.
  • And at the end of the day it’s not about gender, it’s about trust. If you feel safe, seen, and respected, that’s when the magic happens.

If you’re still unsure, let’s have a quick call so you can get a feel for who I am and how I work. Then just go with your intuition.

Will you post my photos online?

Only if you say yes, and even then, only after you’ve had time to think about it. We’ll always ask for your clear, written consent before using any image anywhere. No assumptions or “you seemed fine with it.” You’re in control of what happens with your photos.

Where are my photos stored? Are they safe?

Yes. Your images are backed up in two places:

  • On encrypted external hard drives in my office
  • In secure Amazon S3 cloud storage (used by hospitals, banks, and nerds who love data protection)

Photos are stored for 5 years unless you ask me to delete them earlier. After that, they’re gone for good.

Do you Photoshop the images?

I’ll apply colour grading, tweak the contrast, and clean up anything temporary like a spot, bruise, or shaving mishap. But I don’t reshape, smooth, or filter anyone. You don’t need to be “fixed”, and these photos are about showing you as you actually are and not a cartoon version.

Do you offer makeup and hair styling?

Yes, professional hair and makeup is available for an additional fee. Want to keep it simple with minimal styling? Also great. This shoot is about what you feel good in, not what anyone else expects.

I don’t know what to wear! Help?

That’s quite normal. During our prep chat I’ll help you figure out what styles and colours will work best for your vibe, your shoot location, and the look you’re going for. Whether that’s oversized jumpers, lacy lingerie, or something in between, we’ll make it work.

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Hi, I’m Doug, and I shoot real people doing boudoir their way, right here in London. Women, men and couples welcome.

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